First and foremost, remember that beloved quote,
"Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could; some blunders and absurdities have crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; you shall begin it serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense." RWE
Come back to this list often to check yourself.
Add to it as needed.
1) banish credit cards. Place your trust elsewhere.
2) love your kids...as needed. This does not mean compete with others, or be fearful. Be the mother they need, not the friend they want.
3) combine forces with Ryan, remember...the OUTCOME is more important than the METHOD.
4) call your friends...even if only to say, "I have nothing to say".
5) be flexible and treat others they way you want them to treat you, while standing your ground. When challenged...stand firm logically. DO not fall victim to your own emotions or hurt others with them.
6) take time to be happy :-)
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