There is alot to be said for being honest...I know I wasn't honest enough in my previous relationship because the truth is, I had no idea who I was. I have a better idea now, and my struggle will be to continue finding myself (and being true to who I am) instead of living for another persons happiness and approval.
If being married taught me anything, its that if both people are not entirely committed to making it work...it won't. No matter how hard one person tries, they can't carry a relationship. It is not about butterflies or laughter, it is about trust and knowing that no matter what, that other person will always be on your side. Even if they disagree with you, if you need space to shine or walk your own path...they will be there cheering you on.
I know that we will be fine, "with the help of God and the universe" (Thanks Kai!).
Of course, it never hurts to know that this man is just as committed to my happiness as I am to his! :-)
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